tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34753835.post7662475511316474793..comments2023-10-02T06:36:54.879-04:00Comments on The Hardest Quest: Am I Getting Greedy?Gilhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11726325164456309750noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34753835.post-48301121009030585902010-03-19T20:15:17.620-04:002010-03-19T20:15:17.620-04:00It's not greedy to have an image of the family...It's not greedy to have an image of the family you want to raise, and to pursue it. You can appreciate how lucky you are and what a blessing Petite is without having to give up on the rest of the dream.<br /><br />I can't comment on any of the other considerations, but that doesn't change the fact that your dream is valid and not greedy at all.decemberbabyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04088233282015307702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34753835.post-45028443760447201692010-02-08T00:24:11.967-05:002010-02-08T00:24:11.967-05:00Ok, well, I'd actually look at your benefits b...Ok, well, I'd actually look at your benefits before scheduling anything. Because sometimes they require you to be back at work a certain length of time before they will give you them again, at a certain level.<br /><br />Also, start looking at daycare prices, and nanny costs, and tax breaks. 2 is a lot more than one. If you can find someone, great and cheap, good, but if not--trust me, it's a lot more than IVF to think about paying for.<br /><br />And yes, age and health wise, it's a risk. For me? Never again. No question. I know you hated the needles, but you made it through, so maybe you could again.<br /><br />Just promise me you'll never go to that particular hospital again unless I get to rip someone's throat out first and make sure they don't drive you crazy.Aureliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13691032415028867902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34753835.post-46139367462466368592010-02-06T18:43:05.804-05:002010-02-06T18:43:05.804-05:00You know, I feel a little greedy when I think of #...You know, I feel a little greedy when I think of #2 for _myself_. But when someone else talks about it, I realize, most of the rest of the world doesn't think twice about it. Why should we IFers? If it's what you two want, I wish you all the luck in the world. You deserve all the happiness in the world.ultimatejourneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01385256618267945461noreply@blogger.com